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Serenity Solutions LLC. |
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We help those divorcing or separating create solutions they can live with. |
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Debra V. Lang MBA |
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The advantages of Mediation at a glance |
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Phone: 631-790-6219 Fax: 631-281-6958 E-mail: debra.lang@yourserenitysolutions.com |
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To get started, go to the contact us page and fill out the intake form then contact us for an appointment. If you are not able to complete the form on your own just bring it in on your first appointment along with the required documentation and we can work on what you were unable to fill in. However, the process is more efficient if you fill in as much as you can before the appointment. |

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Do it yourself divorce |
Mediation |
Arbitration |
Collaborative Divorce |
Litigation |
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Most flexible and informal |
Flexible and informal |
Formal |
Less flexible than a do it yourself divorce and mediation, but more flexible than arbitration and a court case |
Formal |
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How fast the settlement agreement is reached depends on the parties |
Typically a faster process than the collaborative process, some arbitrations and a court case. Varies by case |
Typically a faster process than collaborative divorce, some mediations and a court case. Varies by case |
Typically a longer process than mediation, and arbitration but may be faster than a court case |
Typically, longer the longest of the methods |
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The least expensive of all the methods |
Least expensive of the alternative resolution methods |
Less expensive than a court hearing and collaborative divorce, but more expensive that mediation |
More expensive than mediation and arbitration, but less expensive than a court case. |
The most expensive of all the methods |
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All decisions and agreements are made by the parties |
All decisions and agreements are made by the parties |
All decisions made by the arbitrator. The parties have little if any input in the decision. |
Decisions and agreements are made by the parties and their attorney's |
Decisions are made by the judge or Jury. The parties have no input to the decision and are bound to it. |
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The parties have total control of the process |
The mediator facilitates the process, but does not advocate on behalf of either party. The parties retain control of the process |
The arbitrator's decision is binding |
Decisions are made based on recommendations made by the collaborative team |
Parties have the least control of all the methods |
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A private process |
A private process |
Typically a private process |
A private process |
A public process |
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Typically there are no attorneys |
There are no requirements for a change of attorney |
There are no requirements for a change of attorney |
Parties sign an agreement not to go to court. Both attorneys are eliminated from the case if either party wants to go to court or a settlement is not reached |
There are no requirements for a change of attorney |